Dear Queenie,
How do you introduce someone you’re living with but not married to? You can’t say “husband” or “wife” because you’re not legally married, but “boyfriend” or girlfriend” seems too casual, “partner” sounds like a business relationship, “lover” sounds like it’s just for sex and “significant other” is just a big mouthful.
Any suggestions, Queenie?—Introduction Etty Ket
Dear Etty Ket,
I understand your dilemma.
How about “life partner”? Or does that seem too permanent? Maybe “live-in boyfriend/girlfriend”?
But you do not need to explain the details of your relationship at first introduction. It is enough to say, “This is (whatever his or her name is),” and leave the further details for later conversation as the need comes up.
