Dear Queenie,
I had a lot of problems when I was pregnant and I couldn’t pay as much attention to my husband as he wanted and give him everything he needed. He met a woman who told him he should divorce me if he wasn’t happy being married and worrying all the time about his wife and children. So he is getting a divorce and now he is together with that woman.
Queenie, what kind of person, especially a woman, thinks that is okay to do?—Jilted wife
Dear Wife,
What that woman did was wrong, but so was your husband who had taken vows to be faithful to you “for better or worse”.
You should consult a lawyer immediately to learn how to protect yourself and your children in the divorce. You should also go for counselling, and ask your husband to go with you, to see if is possible for the two of you to reconcile and repair your marriage, and if it is not, to learn how to cope with what comes in the future.
And I think that other woman had better pray that she does not start having any “problems”, because if she does, your soon-to-be-ex will probably follow her advice again and break up with her like he has done to you.
