Dear Queenie,
I’m in my 40s and I’m still single because I’ve never been able to meet the right person for me.
Queenie, what can I do about this?—Lonely single person
Dear Lonely,
Think about your appearance, your personality, what you expect from other people and the kind of people you tend to like. Ask friends and family how you come across to the people you are trying to attract, as they will see things about you that you may not be aware of, and be prepared to hear things you do not like. Try taking some college classes and/or doing some volunteer work with a community service organisation, which will give you a chance to meet other people and to become a more interesting person.
