Dear Queenie,
My husband and I have a cat that very obviously cares more about me than him. I’m the one who feeds her and brushes her fur and takes her to the vet. She comes when I call her and sits on my lap and sleeps on my side of the bed. She lets my husband pet her (sometimes) and she runs and hides from strangers.
Queenie, he gets mad when I say she’s my cat. What do you say?—Love my cat
Dear Love my cat,
It is obvious what your cat “says”, but unless you are the only one paying for her food and veterinary bills and the place where she lives, she belongs to your husband too. Try to be more tactful.
