Dear Queenie,
My husband is being promoted to a job on another island and we will be moving there in a couple of months. My parents and grandparents are upset because they keep saying how much they will miss me and he should not take me away from them.
Queenie, how can I make this move without hurting people I love?—Married daughter
Dear Daughter,
This kind of separation is a normal part of growing up. Assure your parents and grandparents that you will keep in touch with them and visit them as often as you can, and suggest that they also will be able to come to visit you in your new home.
