Dear Queenie,
Our family is planning a surprise party for our father’s 50th birthday. My brothers and sisters have big fancy plans at an expensive restaurant and the costs are starting to add up to more than I can afford.
Queenie, what should I do?—Not-rich brother
Dear Brother,
Talk to your siblings, find out exactly what they are planning and what it will cost, and let them know what you can afford to contribute. Matters like this should be agreed on in advance.
