Dear Queenie,
A long time ago a man raped me. I told my sister about it but not anyone else. Years later I saw that man at a social event of my sister and I told her he was the one who had raped me. She said he was her husband’s business contact and he seemed normal to her. After that I saw him at my sister’s house again, but then he moved away.
However, recently he came back and my sister and her family continue to socialize with him.
Queenie, how can I handle this?—Offended rape victim
Dear Offended,
Limit contact with your sister to occasions when and where you know this man will not be present. And professional counselling could still help you, even after all this time.
