Dear Queenie,
I’m what you call a “senior citizen” and the other day a friend of mine who is much younger than I am asked me if I still have sex with my husband and what it’s like at my age.
I think this is a private matter and none of her business, but I didn’t want to be rude.
Queenie, what would be a polite answer is such a case?—Still active
Dear Still active,
You could have just told your friend, “It is different for everybody. You will just have to wait until you are my age to find out for yourself.”