Dear Queenie,
My wife posted some pictures of herself on Facebook that I think are too revealing. She knows how much this bothers me, but she won’t take it down.
Queenie, am I over-reacting?—Angry husband
Dear husband,
That depends partly on what you consider “too revealing.” For example, if she is only wearing a bikini that is still what she could wear in public on the beach or at a swimming pool, so what is the big deal? On the other hand, if she is top- or bottomless, or even completely nude, I would agree with you.
However, this is something on which the two of you will have to reach an agreement. You cannot force her to accept your judgement, but she should be willing to consider your feelings on the matter.
