Dear Queenie,
My sister and her boyfriend are not married but they have been living together for a long time. A couple of times when she was not around he has kissed me like lovers do. I just pushed him away and didn’t say anything to my sister about it. The last time it happened he also grabbed my breast and I got mad and told him to just leave me alone.
Recently he called me and said he was coming over to do some repairs I needed. I told him not to bother, he is not welcome in my house without my sister. He apologized and asked me to forgive him.
Queenie, should I tell my sister about all of this?—Angry sister
Dear Sister,
You should have told this guy off the first time he made a pass at you. Your not doing so led him to believe his advances were, at the very least, not unwelcome. Now he knows better, and hopefully will behave better.
However, you are going to have to decide whether to tell your sister about the way her boyfriend behaves when she is not around, and how you know about it.
