Dear Queenie,
My husband had an affair until I found out about it and he broke up with his byside when I told him it was me or her and if he didn’t break it off I would leave him.
However, I have discovered that he is still texting with her. He says he is not cheating on me because they never meet in person. I say he is still cheating and he shouldn’t be having anything at all to do with her.
Queenie, what do you say?—Betrayed wife
Dear Wife,
I say there is such a thing as an emotional affair and as long as your husband stays in touch with his (ex?-)byside that is what is going on.
He has to choose between the two of you. He cannot “have his cake and eat it too.”
