Dear Queenie,
I have always wanted to move away from here and I have been planning to do so, but my girlfriend likes it here and doesn’t want to go. She doesn’t even like to travel. So I have stayed here.
Now I have a chance to go away, but my girlfriend isn’t interested. My family thinks she is holding me back and I should go, but she does make me happy.
Queenie, should I go without her or stay for her sake?—Can’t decide
Dear Can’t decide,
Your family is right. If you do not take this chance, you may be stuck where you are forever. Under those circumstances, how long will you be happy with your stick-in-the mud girlfriend?
