Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend says she loves everything about me except that I’m not very good-looking and I’m too fat. I suppose I could lose some weight, but I’ll never be good-looking.
Queenie, what should I do?—Confused
Dear Confused,
Well, you could try to lose some weight. Doing so would be good for your health and you might also find you look better for doing it. But if that is what you decide to do, it should be because it is what you want for yourself, not just to please your girlfriend.
