Dear Queenie,
I have a boyfriend and he has a friend and both of them like me, but one of them is in a lower class than the other and now the one who happens to be in the lower class tells me he has finished school.
Now I don't know who to dump and who to take.
Please help me, Queenie.—Confused
Dear Confused,
There is no reason for you to dump either of them unless one (or both) is demanding an exclusive relationship. It is perfectly okay for a girl to date more than one boy, as long as she hasn’t given her word to “go steady” with anyone.
As you are so uncertain about which one you prefer, I don’t think you are ready to have an exclusive relationship with either of these boys. If one or the other (or both) doesn’t like the idea of your “playing the field,” so be it. A boy who really cares about you will stick around until you make up your mind.
If a boy doesn’t care enough to give you a little “space” to make up your mind, you are better off without him. And in the end, you may even find someone else about whom you have no doubts or confusion.
