Dear Queenie,
Some time ago a guy I went to school with got in touch with me online. Then he called me and since then we talk at least once a week, sometimes more. Then I found out he came here to visit his family, but he didn’t let me know he was here so we could meet in person, but he still calls me.
Queenie, do you think he is married or has a girlfriend?—Confused former classmate
Dear Confused,
He could be married or have a girlfriend and still want to stay in touch with you or perhaps when he visited his family they kept him too busy to have time for you.
Tell him you are sorry you did not get to see him and ask if he will be visiting his family any time soon and if, when he does, it will be possible for the two of you to get together for at least a short visit. His response should give you some idea what to expect.
