Dear Queenie,
My wife’s sister cheated on her husband and got divorced and now we have received an invitation to her wedding to the man she cheated with.
We are fond of the sister, but we also are still close to her ex-husband and the children she had with him and we don’t like this new man at all.
Queenie, do we have to go to this wedding?—Disgusted brother-in-law
Dear Disgusted,
For the sake of peace in the family it would be a good idea to attend the wedding, unless you can find a really good excuse not to – like being hospitalised or in jail. However, you do not have to be overly enthusiastic with your congratulations and may leave as early as good manners allow.
