Dear Queenie,
My husband is a loving man who doesn’t abuse me or try to control me, but he also doesn’t try to control our teenage son or make him live by normal family and household rules like what time he should be home when he goes out at night, and he lets his parents make a lot of decisions for us that we should be making just between the 2 of us.
Queenie, is there anything I can do about all this?—Disgusted wife
Dear Wife,
Your husband would benefit from professional counselling to help him learn to grow up and take responsibility for his family rather than continue letting his parents do his job for him. And perhaps a little counselling for yourself would help you figure out how to persuade your husband to get the counselling he needs.
