Dear Queenie,
I have a really big scar from surgery that saved my life. People notice it all the time and ask me about it.
Queenie, why can’t they stop staring at me?—Embarrassed
Dear Embarrassed,
People usually notice anything that is “different.” They do not mean to embarrass you, but they cannot help noticing your scar. Answer any questions with a brief, simple explanation. Eventually everyone you know will know the story behind your scar and will start taking it for granted.
As for strangers, do not let their attention bother you so much. Again, answer any questions with a brief, simple explanation and then change the subject.
