Dear Queenie,
My (ex-) husband and I got divorced, but we still live together for financial reasons, with separate bedrooms. My problem is that sometimes when he has a date he brings the woman home for a while and sometimes they get intimate and even go into his bedroom, and I find it embarrassing.
Queenie, what can I do?—Embarrassed ex
Dear Ex,
Explain your problem to your ex and ask him if he and his date cannot go to her place instead. If this is not possible (probably because she also does not live alone) ask him to let you know ahead of time so you can arrange to stay somewhere else for the evening (or even the whole night) so he and his date can have more privacy and you can be spared the embarrassment.
