Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend and I in high school broke up after some silly quarrel that I can’t even remember what it was about, but we haven’t seen or spoken to each other since high school. Now our class reunion is coming up and I’m wondering if I should go because I might run into her there and I wouldn’t know what to do.
Queenie, should I go anyway?—Ex-boyfriend
Dear Ex,
By all means, go. You would not want to miss the opportunity to meet up again with all your other classmates. Try to avoid your ex-girlfriend, and if you cannot avoid her completely, be civil and try to keep the conversation short. Who knows, she might surprise you and be friendly.