Dear Queenie,
I’ve been dating an amazing man and am falling in love with him and he seems to like being with me, but he doesn’t seem interested in having sex with me. One time I even suggested it myself but he made some excuse about not being ready for that yet.
Queenie, should I stick with him until he is ready?—Frustrated
Dear Frustrated,
“Until he is ready” probably will be never, or he would have jumped at the chance when you propositioned him. He may be gay, he may be totally asexual, or he may be sexually dysfunctional, but he is not likely to go to bed with you any time soon, if ever – read “never.”
If you are willing to do without sex, stick with him. Otherwise, do both of you a favour – let him go and start looking for a man who shares your yearnings.
