Dear Queenie,
I’m in college and my family keeps calling me for some kind of problem.
Queenie, should I ignore them and concentrate on my studies or keep on dropping everything else to help them when they need it?—Frustrated daughter
Dear Daughter,
Every time you pitch in to help your family they become more dependent on you. If you are going to meet your goals in life you will have to set some limits. Let them know when you are too busy and turn off your phone. You will do better and they will learn to do more without you.
