Dear Queenie,
I love my wife, but she doesn’t like to have sex with me and she’s not very good at it when she does. I’ve tried to explain to her what I would like from her but she either doesn’t listen or doesn’t understand or just doesn’t care and things don’t get any better.
Queenie, what more can I do?—Frustrated husband
Dear Husband,
Have you given any thought to what your wife would like from you when it comes to sex? The two of you should see a marriage counsellor and/or a professional sex therapist and both of you should listen carefully to what that/those person(s) tell you.