Dear Queenie,
My friend is pregnant with her third child and I recently learned that this is no accident, even though she and her husband had agreed not to have any more children and she was using birth control, but she stopped on purpose.
Our husbands are friends too and my husband says her husband is terribly upset about her being pregnant.
Queenie, I don’t think what my friend did was right. Should I tell her to tell her husband about it not being an accident, or should I tell my husband to tell her husband?—I need your advice
Dear Need advice,
This is a case where telling the truth will only cause more problems, both emotional and possibly physical, for everyone concerned, including a yet-unborn child. You and your husband should mind your own business and stay completely out of it.
