Dear Queenie,
Me and my boyfriend have been going together for a couple of years, but when I talk about maybe getting engaged to get married he pulls away or changes the subject. I’m starting to wonder if he really loves me as much as I love him.
Queenie, am I wrong to want some sort of commitment?—Impatient girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
You are not wrong to want commitment, but if your boyfriend is not ready for it, you cannot force him to be.
You will have to decide whether to wait longer for him to make up his mind or to end your relationship with him and look for someone who is ready for something more definite and permanent.
