Dear Queenie,
My husband has a friend who is single, attractive, smart and has a good sense of humor. He would be a good catch for any woman, but whenever I try to fix him up with a date he always makes some kind of excuse.
Queenie, do you suppose he is gay?—Matchmaker
Dear Matchmaker,
Some men (and women) are just not interested in being in a relationship, and this man may be one of them. Or he could already be in a relationship that you do not know about.
Save your matchmaking efforts for those who are interested in them.
