Dear Queenie,
I’m 15 and I have a boyfriend, but he hasn’t called me since the vacation. One of my girlfriends told me that she saw him with another girl and she said that it wasn’t just a friend because they were kissing and it was no friendship kiss, it was the French kiss.
So Queenie, could you please help me?—Lonely girlfriend
Dear Lonely girlfriend,
Just what kind of help do you want? If it’s advice on how to get this boy to call you, you won’t get it from me. In the first place, I don’t know enough about him to know what would attract him. In the second place, I wouldn’t advise you to try to get him back, even if you could.
He has shown no interest in you since before the vacation. Furthermore, he seems to be showing a great deal of interest in at least one other girl. He seems to be interested in you only when it is convenient for him because he sees you at school, and then not exclusively. He may show up again now that school has started, but I think you can do better.
However, at your age there is no reason to confine yourself to an exclusive relationship. You should have many friends, female as well as male, and should be focussing mainly on your schoolwork.
