Dear Queenie,
My husband travels a lot for business and I don’t mind his being away so much but when he gets home the first thing he wants to do is get together with his friends.
I do miss him when he is away and I would like to have some time with him when he gets back before he goes out with anybody else.
Queenie, is that asking too much?—Lonely wife
Dear Lonely,
No, that is not asking too much. I do not mean he should not spend time with anyone else too, but as his wife you should come first. After all, why did he marry you if he does not want to spend time with you when he has the chance?