Dear Queenie,
My fiancé and I have been engaged for several years. We lived together after Hurricane Irma while he got his house fixed, but now that it’s done he has moved back to his own place, but he still tries to tell me how I should do things in my own house.
I love him, but I want us to be married and living together.
Queenie, am I wasting my time with him?—Losing my patience
Dear Losing patience,
After so many years, I would say YES! The fact that he moved back to his own house – without asking you to go with him – indicates that he is not really interested in living together with and making a lifetime commitment to you. I also think the fact that he wants to control your life even though the two of you are not even living together is not a good omen for a successful marriage.
And as long as you consider yourself engaged to him, you give yourself no chance to find someone who wants what you want.
