Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend has a habit of talking about her previous boyfriends and things they used to do together.
Queenie, I get so tired of hearing about her exes. How can I get her to stop talking about them?—Not interested in her past
Dear Not interested,
Have you told your girlfriend how you feel about her reminiscing? If not, do so at once – gently, please. If you have told her so already, remind her – again, gently please.
If she cares about how you feel, she will stop talking about her past, or at least try to talk about it less. If she does not – well, then, you will know what to think.
