Dear Queenie,
Flirting and even having an affair, or even more than one, is normal behaviour for both men and women. When people write to you about this as a problem you advise them to get counselling or even break up their relationship.
Queenie, why don’t you just tell them to ignore it and be happy together?—Regular reader
Dear Regular reader,
Thank you for reading my column regularly.
There is a reason most wedding ceremonies include phrases like “forsaking all others” and “keep thee only unto him (or her)”.
If both partners in a relationship agree that this kind of behaviour is acceptable, that is up to them. However, more often one of the partners is very unhappy about it, and that is when it becomes a problem. If someone is not happy about what is going on, my advice stands.
