Dear Queenie,
My ex-boyfriend used to be very fat. While we were together I tried to get him to lose some weight but he just couldn’t manage to do it.
Now he’s together with another woman and he’s lost a lot of weight and looks just great and I wish I could get him back.
Any ideas, Queenie?—Sorry we broke up
Dear Sorry,
You could let him know you still care for him and see how he reacts. But do not be too disappointed if he figures out that it is because of the weight loss and is not flattered by your interest in him.