Dear Queenie,
Now that he is getting older my husband sometimes has trouble getting it up, if you know what I mean. He is worried that I will think it means he doesn’t love me anymore, but I know it’s just a matter of his age.
Queenie, how can I reassure him?—Sympathetic wife
Dear Wife,
Your husband should go to his doctor for a thorough medical exam. His problem could be just a matter of his age, but it also could be related to a real physical condition that needs to be treated. He should find out sooner than later.