Dear Queenie,
I suspect my father has an outside child. He has been privately FaceTiming them (mother and son) and deleted their conversations. I am tempted to ask him but don’t know how.
Queenie, can you give me any ideas about how to ask him?—Uncertain
Dear Uncertain,
You could tell your father you accidentally overheard him talking to these people and ask him who they are without mentioning the fact that he deleted the conversations, but be prepared – he may want to punish you for eavesdropping (which you apparently deserve for snooping – how else could you know that he deleted the conversations?).