Dear Queenie,
My BFF is planning to marry a man who she knows has a record for sexual assault. I think she is making a BIG mistake.
Now they have invited me to the wedding.
Queenie, should I go even though I don’t approve?—Undecided
Dear Undecided,
I depends on how strongly you feel about this match and whether you can manage to hide your feelings and at least pretend to enjoy the occasion for the sake of the bride. If you can do that, go. But if your presence might cast a cloud of disapproval over the event, send your regrets and stay away.
