Dear Queenie,
I’m a divorced woman dating a divorced man who is just amazing. I find him attractive, but I don’t feel passion for him like I did with my ex-husband.
Queenie, should I settle for security and the kind of life I want or look for romance?—Wanting more
Dear Wanting more,
The trouble with passion, also known as “romantic fire,” is that it usually burns itself out, sometimes quite quickly.
An “amazing” person whom you find “attractive” is a much better candidate for a stable, lasting and happy long-term relationship.
