Dear Queenie,
My future mother-in-law is very hard to get along with. Even her own children, including my fiancé, have problems with her. My mother says I should try to at least be polite to her, but it isn’t easy.
Now she says it will cost too much for her and her husband, my fiancé’s father, to come to our wedding. I don’t care, but my fiancé does.
Queenie, how do I handle this?—Worried fiancée
Dear Fiancée,
Always be as polite as you can to your future mother-in-law. Your fiancé should tell her and his father how much he would like them to be at your wedding, and you should be ready to give him your full support no matter what they decide to do.