Dear Queenie,
A friend of mine has fallen in love with a man who visits the island several times a year on business, or so he says.
I got curious to know more about him so I looked him up on the Internet and discovered that he is married and has children and doesn’t own his own business like he says, but works for a big company in a low-level job.
Queenie, should I tell her what I found out?—Worried friend
Dear Friend,
Tell your friend that you found out some things about this man that you think she should know and ask her whether she wants you to tell her what you found out. Most especially, she should be told that he is married, if she does not already know.
However, be prepared for her to be unhappy, and to not thank you for this probably unwelcome information.
