Dear Queenie,
My wife drinks too much now and then and when she’s been drinking she says and does stupid stuff that she doesn’t remember when she sobers up and thinks we’re making up stories about what she said and did.
Queenie, how can we make her believe us and maybe get some help for her drinking?—Worried husband
Dear Husband,
In these days of the ever-present cell phone with recording features the answer is simple: When your wife starts acting up, record what she says and does. Then play it back when she is sober. Who knows, it may even shock her into staying sober with you, and getting help doing so if she needs it.