Dear Queenie,
My husband and I have a new baby boy and we are so happy with him, but recently he told me he only married me because he wanted to have children. He says he’s not “in love” with me, but he does care about me, and he does take good care of me and the baby and he’s a good provider and I’m happy with him and I don’t want a divorce.
However, my best friend says my son will never learn how to love a woman if I stay with his father.
Queenie, is my friend right?—Worried mother
Dear Mother,
No, your friend is not right. Your son will love you and his father and that is how he will learn about loving people of both genders. If you are truly happy with your husband, your friend should envy you, not make judgements about him and your relationship with him.
