Dear Queenie,
My husband told me that one night when he was out with friends he danced with some woman they met and even kissed her after they danced. He didn’t tell me right after it happened, but a few days later. He said he had planned to tell me after a while but decided not to wait any longer.
Queenie, up to now he has always been a perfect husband. Should I forgive him? And can I still trust him?—Worried wife
Dear Worried wife,
I think the answer to both of your questions is “yes.” The fact that he told you about this, and that it went no further than a dance and a kiss, says a lot.
However, you might want to discuss your feelings with a professional marriage counsellor, with or without your husband.
