Protest signs of a march against sexual violence in Marigot on Monday’s front page were loud and clear. One of particular interest read “My name is not psssst” in reference to the sound some men make when they see a female whose physical appearance appeals to them.
One could argue that the practice seems rather innocent, but a growing number of women find such sexist and disrespectful. While this kind of behaviour was never really encouraged by most people, the “Me Too” movement made it even less acceptable.
Times also change and society needs to adapt. What may perhaps have been considered fairly “normal” in the past, including male chauvinism, is simply no longer tolerated.
These changes in the prevailing mentality can occasionally lead to certain social-cultural friction and might be met with some resistance especially from traditionalists and older folks. Ultimately, however, what the majority deems inappropriate will be reflected in laws and their enforcement, standards set, etc.
Does that mean every expression of affection must now be seen as possibly unwanted advances? Hopefully not, because it would take away from what “The Friendly Island” is all about.
Calling each other for example “sweetie” as is often done locally also among ladies should not become an issue. Besides, similar customs exist elsewhere, like in parts of the southern United States.
Being politically correct ought not to come at the expense of chivalry, niceties and warmth characterising this part of the world. Is that too much to ask?
