Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend all through college tells me he wants to go abroad to get his graduate degree. We were talking about getting married, but now he says he wants to get that degree first so he can get better jobs to support me and any children we might have.
Queenie, how will we be able to stay together if we are so far apart?—Afraid of separation
Dear Afraid,
It is possible, but of course it will be very difficult. Is there any possibility of your going abroad with him? Perhaps you too could study for an advanced degree?
I wish I could give you a more definite answer, but only time can answer your question. I hope everything turns out well for the two of you.