Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend says he is committed to our relationship and I am the only woman he ever wants and we have talked about getting married, but he still keeps on looking at dating sites on his computer.
Queenie, he says he loves me and I’m the only woman he ever wants, so why does he still do this and how can I get him to stop?—Angry girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Apparently your idea of a “committed relationship” and your boyfriend’s are not quite the same, and/or he is not very good at telling the truth.
If he were really ready to get married, with all the related limitations on his behaviour, he would not be online looking at/for other available women.