Dear Queenie,
When I found out my wife was having an affair we went to a marriage counsellor, but my wife quit the counselling after just a couple of sessions.
She says she wants us to stay married and if I thought I could trust her not to do it any more so would I, but I don’t want to risk having this go on or happen again with someone else.
Queenie, what should I do?—Angry husband
Dear Husband,
If your wife truly wants to save your marriage she will go with you for counselling and do what the counsellor advises. If she will not do all this, you should continue the counselling on your own to help you learn to deal with the situation, and you should also get legal counselling to help you deal with whatever comes next.