Dear Queenie,
One night when I was out with friends (all men) and I had too much to drink I showed my best friend some very intimate pictures of my wife. After the drinks wore off I was embarrassed that I showed him the pictures, but later we got to talking about our wives and I realized I kind of liked that he saw her that way and since then I keep thinking about showing him more pictures of her.
Queenie, is this normal? Why do I want to do it? I know my wife would be very angry.—Confused husband
Dear Husband,
This new inclination is very kinky and I agree that your wife would be furious if she knew what you had done and wanted to do again. If you value her goodwill and want to save your marriage, you must resist the urge. If necessary, get some professional counselling to help you deal with – and hopefully get over – it.
