Dear Queenie,
Recently one of my husband’s girlfriends from before we met got in touch with him on Facebook to talk about old times. As far as I know they haven’t met up in person, but it bothers me that they are keeping in touch with each other.
Queenie, what should I do?—Angry wife
Dear Wife,
Have you told your husband how this makes you feel? If not, tell him now. If he already knows and is still doing it, perhaps professional counselling can help him understand what a threat it is to your marriage.
If you cannot persuade him to go with you for counselling, go by yourself for help in learning to deal with the situation and deciding what, if anything, you want to do about it.
