Dear Queenie,
I am an independent woman very well off. Recently I found out that my boyfriend of 4½ years lives on a yacht with his wife and kids. Why has he wasted my life?
Now I am going to make myself pregnant by him to regain him.
What do you think of this, Queenie?—Byside
Dear Byside,
If you think I am going to condone your having an affair with a married man you are sorely mistaken. I think you should have ended this relationship as soon as you found out your boyfriend is married.
Why has he wasted your life? Because you let him get away with it.
As for getting pregnant by him, it is never a good idea to try to keep a man by getting pregnant. Doing so is just as likely to drive him away as to hold him to you. Forget it, and forget him!
