Dear Queenie,
I have been living with my parents because I had some health issues and as I have been getting better I have been helping them around the house, but now I have been offered a good job that will require me to live some distance from them and they want me to stay with them because now they are getting older they have their own health problems and need my help.
Queenie, what do you think I should do?—Concerned daughter
Dear Daughter,
If you cannot find just as good a job that will let you continue to live with your parents, perhaps you can help by paying for someone to do the work around their house that you have been doing, and who will give them some of the other (health) care they will need.