Dear Queenie,
I’ve been going for four years with a man who was married before, but both he and his wife had outside affairs and they finally got divorced.
He is in counselling and he claims he would not do all that again, but one time when he got drunk he had sex with a woman who came on to him. He admitted it and regrets it and he swears he would never do it again and since then he has been faithful to me and he wants us to get married, but I have my doubts.
Queenie, do you think I can trust him?—Confused
Dear Confused,
All relationships require trust in one another and this man is trying to prove that you can trust him, but he still might cheat if the two of you start having problems.
Do not make any commitment to him until you are sure you are ready for it.
